Do You Have A Racial Preference?I speak from experience as the perennially single gal in my friend group. This is a process Alyssa Dineen, a former fashion stylist based out of New York City, knows all too well. She's made it her job to help singles curate a great dating profile and even dress the part when it comes time to venture out on a first date. Here's what she had to say. According to Dineen, the first photo that comes up on your profile is the one you should pay the most attention to. Try to find a solo shot of you looking straight on toward the camera. Aside from the star photo that's the first thing eligible singles see when they come across your profile, you'll want to include a variety of additional images on your page.