Sugardaddy was my Friend's Dad?!? - STORYTIMEBy Christian Gollayan. October 19, pm Updated October 22, pm. It was love at first sight. I was also in a relationship. Now Amanda and their families approve of their marriage. Tomorrow is never promised.
We didn't tell anyone. He makes me laugh, has great taste in wine, and well, let's just say that there's some benefits to dating an older, more experienced man. I've wanted to tell Stacey but there really is no easy way to say it.
This is an interesting scenario. Are they still married? Did he make it clear he wants to date you? Why do they still live together? Has the mom. Next thing you know, you're dating your friend's dad. One out of six women will date their friend's father at some point in their lives. Loan Debt Is Cancelled, How Will I Have An Automatic Advantage Over My Peers?. I fell for my best friend's dad even though he's 32 years older rented accommodation, he and Kerry felt able to start dating but they were still.
Her parents are separated and are going to divorce, but it still really bothers her. Bob wants to tell her, but I've been taking an "I'll deal with it tomorrow" approach. But here's the real problem. Bob has Red Sox season tickets.
Woman, 27, marries best friend's dad who's DOUBLE her age - and now they all go on holiday together
He has four seats for Opening Day. He wants to invite Stacey and her husband. And me. Can we say awkward? I know I need to tell Stacey and I certainly don't want a scene at Fenway. I mean, it's the Yankees! How do I tell her? I don't want to ruin anything. I am enjoying my time with Bob. I like him and I want to keep seeing him. I also don't want to lose my best friend. Do I just show up at the game with Bob and hope she doesn't flip out?
Do I talk to her ahead of time? Does Bob tell her?
You are certainly not allowed to surprise Stacey by showing up at Fenway Park on the arm of her dad. I mean, even if Stacey knew about your relationship with Bob and was cool with it, she might not be ready for a double date.
Please put yourself in her shoes.
Before you sit down and tell Stacey that you're in line to be her stepmom, please think about whether this whole Bob thing is worth it. Can you really see yourself with him in five or ten years? You don't have to know for sure whether you want to be the next Mrs.
Bob, but you do have to be honest with yourself if this is just a fun fling. Because if it is, you must end it -- for the sake of everyone's sanity. But if Bob is worth the risk and you do want to stay with him, tell Stacey as soon as you can.
Explain to her that you understand how weird this is and that you're confused and looking for guidance. Ask her what she needs you to do to make this work.
And again, whatever you do, don't spring this on her at a game. You can't say something reasonable and understanding on this sub. You have to admit that OP is the worst person ever and that the man is an obvious creep who belongs in jail. Wow everyone in here is super judgemental, sorry you have to deal with that.
They see the age discrepancies and immediately jump to insult and disgust, which is sad. My father began dating a woman who is only 18 months older than I am a few years ago, slightly larger age gap than you're dealing with. I've known of her since high school and a lot of people I am friends with know her, and it's never been awkward with anyone who doesn't focus on the age gap.
When he first told me I was a little weirded out but it made him happy and ultimately that's what matters. You may get shunned, you may get reactions of surprise and eventual acceptance, and some people may not care at all.
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It's a risk, sure, but to everyone saying that a man that age just wants sex is incredibly sexist and ageist. The fact that he apologized and was aware of the way some people think about it should show he's not in it just for the sex.
The reality is frequently relationships with significant age gaps don't work. But some do. I don't believe you are kidding yourself here. It could work out as long as you accept it will likely be difficult and the public tends to shame people in relationships like that, especially where it's older-man younger-woman and they jump the misogynistic gun of victimizing the women.
I have to admit, I first thought of Monica from Friends whenever I read this lol. Except, I don't think her much older partner was a friend of anyone's dad.
Oh wait! Rachel dated Ross' gf's dad!
Meet the girl Dating Her Best Friend's Dad A woman who married the dad of one of her best friends says people compare them for Catherine. How do you cope when your best friend is about become your step-mom?. I [21/F] hooked up with my friend's dad [41/M]Relationships . My father began dating a woman who is only 18 months older than I am a few.
Sorry I went a little crazy there but anyways You need to understand that your friend may not accept this news of you banging her dad well Think of it in a reverse way. What if your friend was banging your dad Don't think of yourself.
Think of the people that will be affected by this. Think of your parents. Do you think they will approve?
What will happen if you do pursue a relationship with that man? Will your friend accept it? Will your friend still be your friend? Will your group of friends stick with you or shun you away? I'm assuming his wife has been out of the picture for awhile since you never mentioned her. I'm also hoping since you fucked him. If he was still with her then wow, you just helped break a marriage O - O.
Edit: Oh, I see that you mentioned he hasn't been married for awhile. Please think about this rationally. You're probably going on off your feelings, but you need to realize that some crushes are better left in the dirt than to pursue.
Also keep us updated.
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What the fuck, why? When in any of that did it seem like a good idea? Your drove a wedge between your friend and her father, he drove a wedge between you and her. Oh your friend deserved better and he's playing you for a fool. He is disgusting and your friend is going to be disgusted by both of you. You're being utterly naive to think you even want this to work out - what on earth do you think a 41 year old man would want with a 21 year old, aside from sex?? He's an adult.She caught her dad and her bestfriend kissing ??
He knows better. Oh please.
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