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My Beautiful Baby 13 Weeks

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Sterile since birth. Month Starts dating girl, despite our warnings that she has a history of emotional and physical abuse towards her partners. Month 0: Moved in with girl, despite our warnings that it was too soon and that they didnt' know each other well enough. Month 1: Finds out girl is pregnant, despite our warnings that she had been obsessing about wanting his child for a month.

Despite ALL of us telling him to use protection. He believed her when she stated that she "wasn't ovulating" and therefore had "zero chance of getting pregnant".

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Fucking idiot. Month 2: Flies with girl out of state to tell her parents, announces on social media. We all think he's actually going to step up. Refuses contact with her when she is at highest suicide risk, with his unborn child still in 1st trimester.

She's posting video on video on Facebook confused and sobbing. She's a barista, has multiple untreated mental health disorders, and is hopped up on pregnancy hormones. Month 6: She moves to live with her parents. Tells him not to follow her, that she's fine with him living in the same state or even a city nearby, but not in the same city as her.

Month 7: He states that he's intending on moving to the same city as her "because it's what's best for the baby". He states that it's "too steep" and that he'll "buy her some diapers instead" She has also started dating someone. My friends and I have started taking bets on where this dude is going to be when baby is born. Month 8: She and new guy are engaged. Baby-daddy asks to speak with fiance. Instead of assessing what kind of person will be rearing his child, he chooses this moment to try to "warn him" about how dangerous she is.

She's not. This is the most stable any of her friends have ever seen her be. Month 9: Baby is born and is most definitely his. Since she and new-guy are married, by state law, new-guy assumes paternity rights if he signs the birth certificate which he does.

Baby-daddy is on a "soul-searching" road-trip giving bogus life advice to his Insta followers. Fast-forward to today: Baby-daddy has still not acknowledged the birth of his child. The kid is 11 weeks old. He claims not to understand why all of his friends bailed on him, even though we have laid it out plainly and explicitly for him.

Why is it that in my mind I read this like Joe Friday from Dragnet giving the narrative of an investigation? My friend has a wonderful, smart four year old girl and the father's family takes her two nights a week. The parents are cordial, though not particularly close, and both families love and want what's best for the little girl.

It was touch and go leading up to the delivery, but the father decided to be involved after a paternity test. Well, we're married now and I'm 6 months pregnant. It's working out really well so far, even though the fact that I'm pregnant has added a lot of stress onto our lives and our relationship.

Pretty good.

Met in December, married in April, pregnant in June. Still married six years later with a little girl. Predictably - we were dating basically binge drinking and hooking up for a few months when I got pregnant, we tried staying together, moved in together, had a baby, got married, were married for maybe 2 years and then divorced.

The relationship was never right but it just fell apart after awhile.

The final kicker was when we tried to have a second child and I miscarried and he was not supportive, started staying out all the time, almost certainly cheating. On a good note, he turned out to be a person I don't like at all but he's been a good dad and I'm grateful for that.

After 4 months of dating him she became pregnant. He already has a child. Now she's trying to figure out how to deal with this situation. Just before my due date we went out for a really special 'last meal' also. I had been with my OH about 6 months when I fell pregnant and we are still together 5 . Im 19 & my boyfriend of 7 months is I love him very much and he truly is my soul mate. We just happened to be blessed with a beautiful god.

When i was 25 I met a guy. I was completely in awe of him. He was full of potential, great with my daughter, working hard and getting places in his life. I was pregnant two weeks later. November was a cold month Fast forward to today. We have been married for almost five years and our son just turned four in August. He stayed home when i went back to college and he has always been supportive of my in every way.

I'm extremely lucky that he came into my life. I wasn't headed down a good path and he helped me find my way.

Pregnant in a 6 month relationship

Met someone, she got pregnant within the first month of dating. I was afraid of all and terrified to be a father but at the end I accepted my fate, she decided to keep it but as soon as the pregnancy exam came positive she changed her mind. I was more than okay with the decision until later. After taking the abortion pills, turns out she was still pregnant. After a month we realized the baby was not alive, paid for her "cleaning process" don't know correct term at a hospital to take the dead remains out.

After that she decided she wanted to cut all communication with me even though she knows i was supportive and willing to stay with her through all until the very end. Got blocked from everything. I'm just offering some perspective from the other side. Absolutely, my pain and regret is huge and even though I know I did my best to keep her safe, and helping her through the process I keep on blaming myself.

She decided that she would have an abortion. I was more than OK with that but would have let her choose anyway. Wife said he cheated, lied and left and is still a huge fucking douche. I can vouch for that, he barely comes around for their 11 year old.

We dated for 4 months and mutually decided that we didn't want a long . But my mom was pregnant within 6 months of dating my dad. You can be sure that things will continue in this great, happy direction when you' ve been dating someone for six months and you're either. I'm new here and I just need to talk to someone before I explode. I'm 25 but I'm going back to uni next fall, I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months but have.

Dudes missing out on a great kid. Pregnant 4 months into dating. He was an abuse asshole. Continued well after we left him. Took him to court a few times. Did absolutely nothing. Moved out of town to get away after they refused to do anything about anything.

He did it to another girl. Haven't heard from him or his family in a year and it has been lovely. Got my girlfriend at the time, pregnant after 5 months of dating. Married a few months after that.

Married 11 years. It hasn't been anything close to easy. We've fought, fell apart and almost haven't made it.

At the end of the day, I wouldn't have taken this journey with anyone else. Or I can't imagine anyone else in her shoes. It's tough, but what relationship isn't?

My mom and dad knew each other for 3 months before he got her pregnant. My dad asked her to marry him in order to make both sets of my religious grandparents happy and not let them know I was a bastard. They got married and 4 years later had my little brother. After 6 years of marriage my mom found out my dad had a secret baby mama He already had 1 other baby mama that had 3 of his kids and that he only broke it with cuz he was about to marry my mom and that he was still cheating on her.

In rage my mom revenge cheated on my dad and got pregnant with that man. They are both remarried with people that dont make them assholes. We got pregnant 3 months in. I was 25 and he was As my mom interjected her 2 cents in went through all the options, including abortion he put his foot down thinking it was against him and said that it was His baby and whether or not I was there in the end it would be the three of us or just the two of them.

His stance and love for our baby made me love him more. So here we sit with two surprise kids and two more we planned in our beautiful home with our three pups and 12 years together and almost 10 years of marriage. He bought a car in cash for me just before we moved to the Midwest, left it at his moms before we moved and then he closed on our first home when we got here. He knew this girl for like 2 months and on the first night they had sex she ended up pregnant.

They would fight so much at first but now their daughter is about to turn 4 they are genuinely in love with each other, married, and a baby on the way. So it worked out well for us. Almost two years since meeting, we were married within 3 months and expecting within 4. Cheesy as it sounds my love for him grows everyday, especially seeing his bond with our son. I got pregnant 9 months after getting together with my partner. We'll be celebrating our 17 year anniversary next February.

I met my baby's father in rehab, I didn't even like him, but he was cute and I was bored. I got pregnant the third time we had sex, which was in the treatment center van that we were supposed to be cleaning. After the rehab kicked us out for having sex he went to jail for the probation violation for getting kicked out for basically my entire pregnancy. I stayed sober and he didn't and we have forged a weird friendship, but he wants more and I don't so it's awkward for us.

He now has a girlfriend who refuses to leave me and him together unsupervised due to all the weird and thirsty shit he does.

I was pregnant within 3 months. We were both a mess. My mum had just passed and I was making stupid decisions left, right and centre. I genuinely felt like it was love at first sight for both of us, it was a whirlwind of love, fun and lots of alcohol.

We just clicked and everything moved so fast. From there things have only improved. We have had some serious ups and downs and made some big mistakes along the way. But here we are and I do love him very much. And he does me. I think we might make it til death do us part. I was 20, he was 21 and neither of us were prepared to have a child. Our parents, or at least mine, were no help.

He was a partier and went out most nights after our son was born. I ended up with horrible post partum. I eventually went on medication and started therapy, but by then we were finished. I sent our son to live with my parents and only got custody of him a couple of years ago when he turned His father is barely in the picture, as he prefers. He has full access, he just chooses to not be around.

Which I find heartbreaking, but at least I have an amazing, talented 15 year old whom I adore. So I met a women when I was down on my luck in life. She seemed absolutely amazing but there was always that itch in the back of my brain that I couldn't scratch that something was wrong. It was a goddamned nightmare of epic proportions. I would not wish that experience on my worst enemy. Side note: Was really fun to find out how laws work in this case.

Since she was pregnant during her marriage with paternity in question my son was legally her husbands. Got the test done and he was mine.

Then I have to do backflips to prove to the state that I am a competent person who cant break a child in half. Had to prove I wasnt on drugs. Had to take classes. All the while she did a quick settlement with the ex husband where he got shit in his favor. Took two fucking years. Our story is definitely one in a million. We ended up keeping the baby and moving in together, because why not at that point? Got a puppy 3 months later, bought a house 6 months later, had our daughter 3 months after that.

Sold said house 3 months after having our daughter, moved across the country for a new job. I quit mine to stay home with the baby. We got married in September, when our daughter was 9 months old. Not well. We met in early and in October of that year, I was out of town and came back looking for her. Her neighbors said she was taken to the hospital because she had a kid. I didn't even know she was pregnant!!!

Well, she claimed that she was at home and felt that she had to use the bathroom and next thing she knows she is giving birth. Mind you, I saw her almost daily and never noticed she was pregnant. She said she didn't know either, despite this being her fourth kid all from a prior relationship.

So, she says that the kid is mine, etc. But, I'm adding up months and if it was mine, I would have had to got her pregnant right away. But, I remember not being able to nut the first time. She says the kid was a preemie. Yet, the kid had normal weight. Most around me are saying, be responsible and be the father etc. So, I give in and we find a place together. We eventually marry. But, I never really felt in love with her. The baby didn't seem like it was mine either. I kept on. As things go, I realized that I couldn't stay with her.

I just didn't see this continuing. So we separate and work out child support, etc. It's around at this time. I just couldn't get past my thoughts that this wasn't my kid. DNA was a bit cheaper and I decide to get the test. This was procured on my own using cheek swabs. The mom wouldn't consent to a test.

The first whisper reads, "I got pregnant after only 2 months of dating.. We are madly in 6. Just found out I'm pregnant. My boyfriend and I have only been dating. happened when they decided to get married after six months (or less) of dating, and how it ended up I'm 24 now and pregnant with our first. My now husband and I were dating 6 months when I got pregnant, we married when our son was 3 months old and now almost 5 years later we.

Of course we know why. So, I tell the ex the results and tell her I'm not going to pay anymore support.

She gets defensive and says I'm a deadbeat. So, I tell her I will take as many tests as she needs but I'm not paying for the tests. She declined and refused. So she says that unless I pay, no visitation.

In my immaturity, I say "fine". I saw the kid here and there but it faded away. The kids grown now and we stay in touch. But, something is missing. I regret what happened. I shouldn't have gotten the test and I should have fought to stay in the kids life. I feel genuine sorrow for the kid. Split up, she had a baby I didn't know I was the fatherI got custody at age 8.

He's 21 now and doin' fine. Not me but a former friend knocked Up a 15 year old when he was 18, luckily they could abort it, and they're No longer together. My friend and her husband, moved in together after dating a month, engaged after 3, pregnant by 6, just got married on their 1 year anniversary. Baby is due in a few months so we will see.

I had a miscarriage, which, in all reality, was the best possible outcome. I was 19 and not at all ready for a child. It worked out for the best. Not me, but my SIL. She moved out and lived with him for about 6 months, where he's physically abusive to her, has cheated on her multiple times and been in prison for physically abusing her.

Pretty shitty dynamic, but cant do anything about someone that doesn't want things to change. I went to school with a girl who got pregnant at She was a bit of a wild girl at that age an apparently and had multiple pregnancies scares since her body could hold a child. Don't know how long she was going out with the guy but he was They had to prove to the cops he didn't rape her and it was all consensual.

She gave birth but unfortunately, they didn't end up staying together.

Most girls in my area that get pregnant at a young age end up dropping out of school and just being a mum. This girl though managed her time and she graduated with us all.

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She took a year to spend with the child before she went to college and the child went to preschool. He's nearly 9 now and I feel so old looking at him. Another girl I know was with a guy about 6 months when they got pregnant.

On Facebook, they seem all happy and in love but I know the guy too through another friend and he's crazy possessive and obsessive. He also does a load of cocaine. Use of this site constitutes acceptance of our User Agreement and Privacy Policy.

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Tags to use: [Serious] Use a [Serious] post tag to designate your post as a serious, on-topic-only thread. Please use spoiler tags to hide spoilers. Just a flood of emotions rushed through me. Though I was experiencing so many mixed emotions I knew I was going to love this child no matter what happens with me and him. I never planned on having unprotected sex, especially with someone I hardly know, but things happen. Before we found out I was pregnant we spent so much time together living in the moment.

No worries, just me, him and his son having fun. Once we found out, things slowly but surely changed. He stopped calling and texting as much. We would argue about him being in relationships because believe it or not I was actually in love with him given the short amount of time we spent together.

I was getting so stressed out about a situation that I have no control of. I work full-time and go to school at night, so I have a lot on my plate already. We communicate on a daily and talk as if nothing ever happened. I am in my second trimester and we plan on doing everything together as far as the baby goes. Things happen?

Oh, really!?! Things only happen when you participate in whore-ish activities. But, hold up! You were hanging out with him and his son? If you knew he had a baby momma, then why would you lay down and Ö. Child, why I am even bothering asking you questions. You two do-do brains belong together.

Dating 6 months and pregnant

Monkey see and monkey do. If you know he's the one you should just explain that to your family. I'm 23 and he's 25 and I knew from the first day I met him I was going to marry him. Unfortunately it didn't go to term, and ended around 7 weeks. This time, however, we were trying and it's not a conventional situation either, but he and I are happy.

My parents won't approve, because of they way they were raised. My mom and step-dad both believe that you should be married before you have children. And while that is still in the plan, it's not happening just yet.

If you're happy, then that's all that should matter. You're an adult, and it's your life. Someone shouldn't judge you for your choices, unless they're ready to be judged for theirs. I had my first child with a short term relationship. We were together for about four months before I got pregnant.

It didn't end well. We broke up while I was pregnant, then got back together for "the sake of the baby", then broke up the final time when my son was 8 months old. I'm now married to the man I was meant to be with and live in a different state. My son never sees his biological father for several reasons, but the main one is that he dropped off the face of the earth when we broke up.

Everyone's situation is different. Nobody in my family was happy to hear I was pregnant with this man I barely knew, but my son was the best thing to ever happen to me. A blessing in disguise. No matter what happens, babies are awesome.

I met my husband when I was 17, a junior in high school. At the time he was Today I am 19 with my beautiful 5 month old daughter. We had been together for 2 years when we got engaged and 2 months after I found out I was 3 months pregnant. We were excited and couldn't wait. I was 18 and he was I got so many negative responses and the one person I never expected to be so harsh was my older sister who was 19 at the time.

The initial shock gives everyone a different outlook. But nothing makes anyone happier than to see and hold a baby. Thank you so much for your replies and personal stories. It's really refreshing to have some support :. My now husband and I were dating 6 months when I got pregnant, we married when our son was 3 months old and now almost 5 years later we are expecting our second! Everything happens for a reason and you can't please everyone if you're happy everyone else will also be happy in due time!

Good luck! Don't worry, don't stress, things happen for a reason and God doesn't give you anything you can't handle. When I was first dating my now husband it was 4 months when we found out I was pregnant, we weren't preventing because my doctors have told me my whole life I would have a hard time conceiving due to medical issues but bam.

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